Warning: Random anecdote about me ha
Day 9 of my 30 day challenge. The number 9 is actually my lucky number. I stole it from my momma when I was a kid. If you read “30 Day Challenge – Day 6” (coincidentally that’s a 9 turned upside down…) you know her birthday is December 9th. When I was about 6 years old (weird that’s also a coincidence…) I joined my first sports team. I was playing baseball and I got to pick my number. I can’t quite remember if she specifically told me it was HER lucky number or if I just picked it because my mom was my favorite person. Either way, forever more 9 is my lucky number. That’s also the first time I remember being told about “lucky numbers” – superstitions are so wild to me. Anywho –
HERE’S THE ACTUAL START OF THIS POST 🙂
It’s the holiday season and while stress can happen any time of the year, the holidays tend to bring a whole other energy that can really be overwhelming.
When I look up, “Ways to deal with stress” the most common responses are as follows:
- Exercise
- Avoid caffeine, alcohol, and nicotine
- Get more sleep
- Relax – meditate, go for a walk, or just take a time out for yourself in some way
Okay, those are all fantastic ideas but what if you’re looking for something that doesn’t require some higher level of awareness?
Obviously exercise is great for everyone – moving your body gets the blood pumping and those happy hormones flowing. BUT, I’m sorry maybe it’s just me, if I’m hyper stressed I may not have time – that’s why I’m stressed. OR I’m nowhere near jumping into an exercise routine right now. Maybe I haven’t worked out ever and I don’t even no where to begin and now I’ve created more stress for myself thinking about how I should really be exercising but I’m not.
Avoiding caffeine, alcohol, and nicotine sounds logical. These things can increase anxiety and are generally not considered very good for your health. Okay, sure. But what if when I’m stressed, these are the only constants in my life that bring me some reprieve? Also, we are talking HOLIDAY STRESS of course there’s going to be alcohol…
Relax. Okay first of all, does anything make you less relaxed when you are stressed than someone telling you to, “…just relax!” When you are stressed out (and I’m talking general stress, I will not pretend I am a doctor and can tell you how to remedy your diagnosed anxiety) it’s a great idea to take time for yourself. I can definitely get behind that. But what if you’ve tried to “relax” and your brain just isn’t cooperating. You are on your walk and now, alone with your thoughts, your mind begins running through your unfinished To-Do list and you can feel your heart pounding in your chest because instead of ticking things off of your list you are on this stupid walk thinking about all of the things on your list and it’s winter on the northeast and so it’s cold and so no one else is walking around right now and you begin to panic that if you pass out no one will find you and you’ll freeze to death?
Does that sound like a bit much to you? Well then I don’t know if you know what stress is all about. It’s often completely nonsensical.
This post is already probably too long – or maybe it’s not, I’d love to hear your feedback!! Since I’m not sure though I’m going to pause here and ask you to tune back in tomorrow for Day 10 (I’ll be 1/3 of my way through my 30 Day Challenge, woohoo!) when I tell you some alternative ways to reduce stress.
I’d love to hear from you, for real. How do you deal with stress? What is the most stressful thing for you during the holidays? Talk to me haha