I completed my challenge! And promptly dropped off the fitness planet.
I know this isn’t unusual but I let it get to me. I got frustrated with myself and I did weird things like scold myself repeatedly but then eat garbage and then follow that with more scolding. All the while doing zero physical activity.
I lost 6 pounds in 6 weeks and gained a ton of strength. My clothes are fitting better and I’ve gotten compliments from those who haven’t seen me since before I started the 6 week challenge.
So why did I just stop?
It’s hard to keep going without the right motivation. The challenge gave me a sense of “I have to go” but once it ended it was all up to me. And, I never tell myself, “I have to go”.
So what am I doing this for? That’s what I have to focus on.
Immediately after stopping I started to feel terrible. My body felt sluggish, I was exhausted all over again. I started craving junk more and more with every meal I caved into.
It was that familiar slippery slope.
And I remembered why. I don’t want to feel this way anymore. It’s been years and years with hardly any change and I don’t want it anymore!
Today I decided to be kinder to myself. I decided to be patient and forgive myself for the past couple of weeks where I stopped all my hard earned good habits.
I decided to try again.
And the coolest thing happened. I did better than I had in any class I took during the entire 6 week challenge! I pushed myself because I truly believed I could do it and that I deserved it.
It feels so good too! It actually makes me want to try again.
But I know this feeling is temporary. Soon enough I will feel tired and start to get frustrated with myself. The negative thoughts will creep back into my head and it will be up to me to be kinder to myself. To be patient and to forgive when I slip.
Most importantly, it will be up to me to try again.